Feminist Friday: Hairy vs. Hairless 2013

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Feminist Friday: Hairy vs. Hairless 2013

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2013 2013 2013 <table cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="float: left; margin-right: 1em; text-align: left;"><tbody><tr><td style="text-align: center;"><a href="http://metrouk2.files.wordpress.com/2013/06/hairy-leggings.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><img alt="anti pervert hairy leggings" border="0" height="200" src="http://metrouk2.files.wordpress.com/2013/06/hairy-leggings.jpg" title="anti pervert hairy leggings" width="167" /></a></td></tr><tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">Anti Pervert Hairy Leggings</td></tr></tbody></table><span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">It all started two months ago with those stupid freaking hairy "anti-pervert" leggings. You know the ones I'm talking about. The ones that permeated my Facebook news stream with comments of "haha" and "eww." The ones that were billed to keep unwanted male attention at bay. Those stupid freaking leggings drove me to a feminist rage that put me on threat level explosive. I hate them. Even more so I hated that no one else around me seemed to understand that they weren't funny and they weren't gross but were the epitome of patriarchal bullshit and &nbsp;perpetuated the <a href="http://transatlanticblonde.blogspot.co.uk/2011/09/feminist-friday-xvi-beauty-myth.html" target="_blank">beauty myth</a> while not so subtly victim blaming.</span><br /><span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">So if you don't want "perverts" perving on you then you should have hairy legs. So obviously hairless legs are the only attractive thing to have; if you have hairy legs you're gross and even the perviest perv will leave you be. I've talked about <a href="http://transatlanticblonde.blogspot.co.uk/2011/07/feminist-friday-xii.html" target="_blank">hairlessness</a> and what society tells us is beautiful before so I'm not going to rage on too long here--on the grand scale of how fucked up these leggings are it's the lesser of all the evils.</span><br /><span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">Women "have" to wear these leggings to stop perverts. Why can't the perverts stop themselves? Even suggesting that they will stop unwanted attention suggests that any unwanted attention is the fault of the woman being harassed and not the harasser--victim blaming and not even&nbsp;vaguely&nbsp;subtle about it. I'll also take it so far as to say they perpetuate the belief that rape is about sex when rape has nothing to do with sex and is about power. If you're a pretty, hairless girl you could get perved on so you need to protect yourself by making yourself ugly and hairy so no man would ever want to harass or perv on you. Obviously unattractive women are never raped or harassed, <i>duh</i>.&nbsp;</span><br /><span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;"><br /></span><br /><table cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="float: right; margin-left: 1em; text-align: right;"><tbody><tr><td style="text-align: center;"><a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-jyy5AJDOcCE/Ug44o0Pde_I/AAAAAAAAEds/077SHlildI0/s1600/Hairy+Blonde+Legs.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><img alt="blonde hairy legs" border="0" height="200" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-jyy5AJDOcCE/Ug44o0Pde_I/AAAAAAAAEds/077SHlildI0/s200/Hairy+Blonde+Legs.JPG" title="blonde woman hairy legs" width="150" /></a></td></tr><tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">I promise they're really hairy.</td></tr></tbody></table><span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">Those freaking hairy leggings pissed me off so much I decided to say fuck it and I would grow my own pair of leggings and challenge my own thoughts about hairy legs and say fuck you to the man. One little problem though--I can't shake that feeling that other people are judging me and my hairy legs and I really don't like it.</span><br /><span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">In general I've been okay about it. I've gone to swimming pools, worn dresses without tights to work, but I've also been somewhat hyper-conscious of what I think is other people staring at my legs. I'll be fine and not think about it but then cross my legs in a meeting and think that everyone is looking at my legs and how hairy they are. It doesn't help that hair in general grosses me out and I don't know if that is just a personal hang-up or societal norms rearing their ugly head but I can't embrace and love my hairy legs like I would in some utopian feminist fantasy. Maybe two months isn't long enough to break my subconscious&nbsp;subservience&nbsp;to&nbsp;societal&nbsp;norms but I'm not anywhere near 100% secure about having hairy legs.</span><br /><span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">I find myself apologizing for them, too. To the girl who waxes my eyebrows to friends when I'm out for drinks--they all say the same thing about how blonde I am and they hand't even noticed. They couldn't have not shaved for two months but I still can't reconcile it. I want to be happy, hairy and care-free but for whatever reason I'm fairly sure I'm at the end of my hairy journey. Although I have to say writing this and "coming out" with my hairy legs has made me feel a bit better about it all. &nbsp;Still though feeling the wind blow between your leg hairs isn't a particularly pleasant experience.</span><br /><span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">It's increasingly difficult to reconcile my feminist beliefs with my own personal beauty beliefs but I hope I can fall back on my most favourite feminist belief--choice. I chose to have hairy legs and at some point I'm going to choose to have hairless legs again. Sure my choices are partially informed by what society tells me I should do but if I buck the norm and still don't like it surely making an informed choice is worth something?&nbsp;</span><br /><span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;"><br /></span><br /><center><center><a href="http://transatlanticblonde.blogspot.com/p/feminist-fridays.html"><img src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_VEM_2HocJUk/TE8TRNsj7EI/AAAAAAAABMc/0VstfjGAAyc/s320/FemMomBlogger.jpg" /></a></center><center></center><!-- start InLinkz script --><script src="http://www.inlinkz.com/cs.php?id=306902" type="text/javascript"></script><!-- end InLinkz script --><center></center><b><span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;"><center><b><span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;"><br /></span></b></center>Let's be friends! 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You know the ones I'm talking about. The ones that permeated my Facebook news stream with comments of "haha" and "eww." The ones that were billed to keep unwanted male attention at bay. Those stupid freaking leggings drove me to a feminist rage that put me on threat level explosive. I hate them. Even more so I hated that no one else around me seemed to understand that they weren't funny and they weren't gross but were the epitome of patriarchal bullshit and &nbsp;perpetuated the <a href="http://transatlanticblonde.blogspot.co.uk/2011/09/feminist-friday-xvi-beauty-myth.html" target="_blank">beauty myth</a> while not so subtly victim blaming.</span><br /><span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">So if you don't want "perverts" perving on you then you should have hairy legs. So obviously hairless legs are the only attractive thing to have; if you have hairy legs you're gross and even the perviest perv will leave you be. I've talked about <a href="http://transatlanticblonde.blogspot.co.uk/2011/07/feminist-friday-xii.html" target="_blank">hairlessness</a> and what society tells us is beautiful before so I'm not going to rage on too long here--on the grand scale of how fucked up these leggings are it's the lesser of all the evils.</span><br /><span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">Women "have" to wear these leggings to stop perverts. Why can't the perverts stop themselves? Even suggesting that they will stop unwanted attention suggests that any unwanted attention is the fault of the woman being harassed and not the harasser--victim blaming and not even&nbsp;vaguely&nbsp;subtle about it. I'll also take it so far as to say they perpetuate the belief that rape is about sex when rape has nothing to do with sex and is about power. If you're a pretty, hairless girl you could get perved on so you need to protect yourself by making yourself ugly and hairy so no man would ever want to harass or perv on you. Obviously unattractive women are never raped or harassed, <i>duh</i>.&nbsp;</span><br /><span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;"><br /></span><br /><table cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="float: right; margin-left: 1em; text-align: right;"><tbody><tr><td style="text-align: center;"><a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-jyy5AJDOcCE/Ug44o0Pde_I/AAAAAAAAEds/077SHlildI0/s1600/Hairy+Blonde+Legs.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><img alt="blonde hairy legs" border="0" height="200" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-jyy5AJDOcCE/Ug44o0Pde_I/AAAAAAAAEds/077SHlildI0/s200/Hairy+Blonde+Legs.JPG" title="blonde woman hairy legs" width="150" /></a></td></tr><tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">I promise they're really hairy.</td></tr></tbody></table><span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">Those freaking hairy leggings pissed me off so much I decided to say fuck it and I would grow my own pair of leggings and challenge my own thoughts about hairy legs and say fuck you to the man. One little problem though--I can't shake that feeling that other people are judging me and my hairy legs and I really don't like it.</span><br /><span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">In general I've been okay about it. I've gone to swimming pools, worn dresses without tights to work, but I've also been somewhat hyper-conscious of what I think is other people staring at my legs. I'll be fine and not think about it but then cross my legs in a meeting and think that everyone is looking at my legs and how hairy they are. It doesn't help that hair in general grosses me out and I don't know if that is just a personal hang-up or societal norms rearing their ugly head but I can't embrace and love my hairy legs like I would in some utopian feminist fantasy. Maybe two months isn't long enough to break my subconscious&nbsp;subservience&nbsp;to&nbsp;societal&nbsp;norms but I'm not anywhere near 100% secure about having hairy legs.</span><br /><span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">I find myself apologizing for them, too. To the girl who waxes my eyebrows to friends when I'm out for drinks--they all say the same thing about how blonde I am and they hand't even noticed. They couldn't have not shaved for two months but I still can't reconcile it. I want to be happy, hairy and care-free but for whatever reason I'm fairly sure I'm at the end of my hairy journey. Although I have to say writing this and "coming out" with my hairy legs has made me feel a bit better about it all. &nbsp;Still though feeling the wind blow between your leg hairs isn't a particularly pleasant experience.</span><br /><span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">It's increasingly difficult to reconcile my feminist beliefs with my own personal beauty beliefs but I hope I can fall back on my most favourite feminist belief--choice. I chose to have hairy legs and at some point I'm going to choose to have hairless legs again. Sure my choices are partially informed by what society tells me I should do but if I buck the norm and still don't like it surely making an informed choice is worth something?&nbsp;</span><br /><span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;"><br /></span><br /><center><center><a href="http://transatlanticblonde.blogspot.com/p/feminist-fridays.html"><img src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_VEM_2HocJUk/TE8TRNsj7EI/AAAAAAAABMc/0VstfjGAAyc/s320/FemMomBlogger.jpg" /></a></center><center></center><!-- start InLinkz script --><script src="http://www.inlinkz.com/cs.php?id=306902" type="text/javascript"></script><!-- end InLinkz script --><center></center><b><span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;"><center><b><span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;"><br /></span></b></center>Let's be friends! 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